Choose Wisely, Live Fully points to Proverbs 1–9 for wisdom and truth
Author of Choose
Wisely, Live Fully
Fortune,
fame and power mean nothing without godly wisdom. King Solomon learned this in
his day, and it is a truth that stands today. Author Donna Gaines’ new book, Choose Wisely, Live Fully: Lessons from
Wisdom & Folly, the Two Women of Proverbs (Abingdon Press), draws from the timeless wisdom of Proverbs 1–9 to help
women apply the same principles in practical ways to the issues they face
today.
Q: Women are often referred to
Proverbs 31 when it comes to an example of being godly wives and mothers. Why
did you decide to focus instead on the first nine chapters of Proverbs and the
women described as Wisdom and Folly?
Proverbs
1–9 is the foundation of wisdom that leads us to Christ. Chapters 10–31 contain
the practical advice for living out that wisdom.
In
Proverbs 1–9, Wisdom and Folly call out to those around them. Each is on a
path. One leads to blessing and life and the other to curses and death. It was
after I compared the two paths that I saw the wisdom of God plainly explained so
we might choose to live life the way God designed it to be lived. The path of
Wisdom is the path that not only leads us to Christ, but to all the blessings
of the abundant life He died to purchase for us.
The
Proverbs 31 woman is simply a woman who made the choices consistently leading to
wisdom and blessing. She was not perfect, but she was wise.
Q: If you had to narrow it down, what
are three of the most important lessons we can learn from the two women of
Proverbs?
One
of the main lessons we learn is every one of our choices has consequences. God
made it very apparent in His Word that we reap what we sow. I call these verses
in scripture the “if, then” verses. God told us over and over in His Word that
He blesses obedience. It is in obedience to His Word that we:
1. encounter the
fear of the Lord,
2. which gives us
wisdom
3. and the
blessing of spiritual understanding that leads to life.
We
also learn as we obey that we develop a God-confidence, which enables us to stand
boldly for truth as we live and speak it in love.
When
we obey, we are granted a spiritual sight enabling us to live every day for
“that day” — the day we stand before Christ.
Q: Describe how fairy tales from our
childhood correlate to the longing for more we have as adults. How do we often
wrongly pursue what will fill that emptiness?
God
is relational and has created us in His image. Even though that image is
grossly marred, we still have an awareness that we were created for more than
this life has to offer, and we long for what should be. God’s story of
redemption is woven into all of life — music, movies, literature and even our
fairy tales. We long to be rescued, much like the damsel in distress in the
fairy tales of our childhood.
As
young girls, we were drawn to these stories of heroism and rescue because of
that longing for more. The Bible tells us in Ecclesiastes 3:11 that God has set
eternity in our hearts. The desire for life as it should be has been firmly
planted in each person’s soul. We know there is more to life than we are
experiencing, and we are constantly searching for “happily ever after.”
Reflect
on the familiar fairy tales. What do they all have in common? They all contain
a rescued damsel who lives happily ever after with her prince. Some have called
this longing a faint memory or imprint from creation, an awareness of being
created in the image of God and a longing for life eternal, where there is no
sickness and separation.
Fairy
tales, art, music and literature all reflect our longing for more. We all know
that death is unnatural and this life cannot be all there is. This longing
leads many to try to fulfill these legitimate desires with illegitimate things,
but we always come up empty. The new job, new house, new car or new spouse —
they only satisfy for a while. Then the insatiable longing returns. Our
childhood fairytales give us a glimpse into this longing for life as it should
be.
Q: How were your three daughters
involved in the writing of Choose Wisely,
Live Fully?
As
you work through the book you will see the chapters devoted to the
characteristics of Wisdom and Folly. Each chapter features the blessing of
wisdom and the very opposite curse associated with Folly. At the end of each of
these chapters my daughters wrote a “blog post”-type article about how they
learned this particular truth or how it was manifest in their lives.
Q: What are some of the things you
wish you had done differently when you discipled your daughters in high school?
I
look back on those times and am so grateful for the Lord’s grace in allowing me
to disciple them. I think if I would change anything, it would be to spend even
more time with them, reading God’s Word, exposing them to great biblical
teaching and praying with them. You will never regret the time you invest in
someone spiritually.
Q: Choose
Wisely, Live Fully includes a built-in study guide. Is the guide intended
for personal use or group study?
The
study guide is intended to be used in a small group. You can work through it by
yourself, but you will experience much greater growth and accountability if you
share the experience with a small group.
Learn more
about Choose Wisely, Live Fully at http://donnagaines.org and follow Donna Gaines on Twitter (@donnadgaines).
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