Woman tells shocking and inspirational story of corresponding with her father’s murderer
Forgiving
the unforgiveable
Woman tells shocking
and inspirational story
of corresponding with her father’s murderer
If you asked anyone who knew Laurie A. Coombs, they
would tell you what an incredibly strong person she was — the kind of person
who can make it through anything. As Coombs
details in her new memoir, Letters from My Father’s
Murderer: A Journey of Forgiveness (Kregel/June
27, 2015/ISBN: 978-0825442292/$14.99), that
outward veneer of strength masked a crumbling interior.
People
had good reason to believe Coombs was as tough and tenacious as she appeared. When
her father was murdered while she was in college, she sought justice — and found
it. Her father’s killer now serves two life sentences with no possibility of
parole. “I certainly had been through
quite a bit, and it seemed to me I had been the one who had gotten myself
through it all,” Coombs admits. “‘I don’t know how you do it, Laurie,’ some
would say. And in my heart, I’d think, ‘I
know. I am pretty amazing.’ These comments were intended to encourage
me, but they only fueled my pride. And as Proverbs says, pride most certainly
does come before a fall.”
After
the trial ended, Coombs began to rebuild her life; she graduated, got married
and began a beautiful family. Yet, Coombs’ life soon became overwhelmed by pain,
bitterness and anger she couldn’t control. She went from doctor to doctor, desperately
seeking relief for the physical, mental and emotional symptoms of anxiety and
depression. Then one day, she accepted a friend’s invitation to church where
she found a faith that would transform her heart and start her on the road to
healing.
“I
felt free for the first time,” Coombs reveals. “The joy and peace I so
desperately sought finally took residence in my heart. The void I had been
unknowingly trying to fill with worldly things, accomplishment, and accolades
was filled with the light and love of Christ. I had been made new. “
Coombs
began to realize complete healing would only come when she began to seek
something infinitely more difficult than justice: true forgiveness of her
father’s murderer. Coombs’ situation took the biblical imperative to “love your
enemy” to a whole new level, and as readers will learn in Letters from My Father’s Murderer, she discovers just how far the
power of Christ’s redemption can reach when she begins to correspond with the
killer.
Filled
with the actual correspondence that took place between Coombs and the prisoner,
Letters from My Father’s Murderer provides
a unique glimpse into the practical process of forgiveness. It is messy, it is painful,
but most of all, it is possible. Anyone
who has been affected by the sins of others and is desperate to let go of their
pain and resentment will find encouragement through Coombs’ story; freedom is within reach, and there is absolutely
nothing that is irredeemable through the power of Jesus Christ.
In 2010, Laurie Coombs was called to forgive the man who
murdered her father. What happened as a result of that journey is now the
subject of her new book, Letters from My
Father’s Murderer (Kregel, 2015). Her story has also been featured in Billy
Graham’s new film, Heaven, a part of
the “My Hope with Billy Graham” national broadcast.
Coombs writes on her blog and is a regular writer for iBelieve.com and Crosswalk.com.
She is a contributor to the NIV Bible for
Women: Fresh Insights for Thriving in Today’s World (Zondervan, 2015), has
been published in FullFill magazine
and has appeared on the radio program Living
Joyfully Free.
With a background in teaching, Coombs is a passionate speaker
on the issues of forgiveness, redemption and the blessings associated with
following Jesus. She and her husband, Travis, make their home in Nevada along
with their two daughters, Ella and Avery. Together, they are in the process of
adopting from Ethiopia.
Learn more about Laurie Coombs and Letters from My Father’s Murderer at www.lauriecoombs.org and on Facebook (lauriecoombs), Twitter (lauriecoombs) and Pinterest (laurieacoombs).
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