Tricia Goyer shares the process of a movie... becoming a book!
An interview with Tricia Goyer,
author of the Moms’ Night
Out novelization
Q:
This book is a novelization of the new movie Moms’ Night Out, starring Patricia Heaton, Sean Astin and others.
We’re used to novels being turned into movies, but not so much movies being
turned into novels. How does the novelization of a movie work?
A novelization means a novel inspired by
the movie. I was contacted in December asking if I’d be interested in this
project. I’d seen the trailer, and (as a mom of six with a hectic household) I
immediately said, “Yes!” They sent me the movie, and I watched it a few times
just to get an idea of the story. I loved it! It made me laugh and really spoke
to my heart. Then with the screenplay in hand, I watched the movie a scene at a
time. I’d catch the dialogue, and then I’d go back and bring the characters’
actions to life on the page. So, yes, I can pretty much quote the movie as it
plays!
Q:
How many times did you have to watch the movie in order to write the book?
I didn’t count, but I’d say I watched
each scene 20-50 times, depending on how much action or dialogue there was!
Q:
How involved do you get to be with the movie premiere and all the excitement of
a theatrical release?
I was so honored to be able to go to
Hollywood to be part of the premiere on April 29. They listed me as “Talent,”
and I got to ride to the TCL Chinese Theater in a fancy car, walk the Red
Carpet, watch the movie sitting next to Alex Hendrick (an awesome movie
star/producer) and then have a wonderful time getting to know all the cast
better at the after party. It truly was a magical night!
Q:
You’re the mother of six and a best-selling author and speaker. What advice do
you have for moms who are trying to juggle their work schedule and their family
responsibilities?
Know how much you can say yes to. This
year the only extra-curricular activity my children were a part of was Awanas.
I only have one weekly commitment other than church and our small group, and
that is our Teen MOPS (Mothers of Preschoolers Support Group). We spend a lot
of time playing with the neighbors and hanging out as a family. I’ve been at
the spot where I’ve been running place to place with kids’ activities, and that’s
not fun! After raising three kids, I’ve learned having dinners together and
family time is a priority. I also balance my work commitments. As a writer my
work is steady, and I have to make sure not to take on too many projects. It’s
hard for me! Just last week I had to cut out some projects I really like just
for the fact that I can’t do it all.
Q:
Moms really do sacrifice so much for their families; why is it important for
moms to make sure they’re finding rest and encouragement?
I love the well-known phrase, “When Mama
ain’t happy, ain’t nobody happy.” When I am exhausted and overwhelmed, my whole
family suffers. When I have time for friends and I fuel up on God, then I’m
such a better mom. When I’m encouraged, then I pour encouragement out. When I’m
rested, I give of myself with patience and love. It’s hard to step away, but so
important too!
Q:
How often do you get to have a Moms’ Night Out? Do you have a group of
mommy-friends you’re able to connect with regularly?
I’m part of a small group of women at
our church. They meet monthly, and I’m able to make it about every other month.
I also have some girlfriends I’ll meet for lunch. Sometimes it’s hard to
justify paying a babysitter to go to lunch, but I always come back refreshed. I
also lead a Teen MOPS support group. The attendees and leaders range from age
17–55. We care for one another, love one another and draw support from one
another. I get just as much back as I give!
Q:
What’s the most comical experience you’ve had on a Moms’ Night Out?
Once a group of writer friends and I had
gathered to go to a writers’ conference. We all came to town early to eat
dinner at a very expensive restaurant. We dressed up and enjoyed the exquisite
gardens as we walked to the front doors, only to discover it was . . . closed!
We drove around for a while and finally ended up eating at a hole in the wall
barbecue pit with picnic tables (inside), red-checkered, plastic table clothes
and plastic forks. Not what we had in mind!
Q:
Raising kids can be difficult, but there are some funny moments along the way —
share one of your funniest memories involving your kids.
I have one from yesterday. We laughed so
hard! Our daughter (six) was riding in the back of the car.
Her: “Mom, Dad!” she called out. “Grandma
was sweeping the front porch and a black, wet cat leaped out of nowhere and
jumped on her!”
Me: “Sweetie, remember we’ve been
working about not lying or not telling stories.”
Her: “I saw a cat.”
It’s just a balance to be creative and
to be truthful . . . we try to guide our children in both!
Q:
How does your husband help out in those moments when you just have to get a
break, like the moms in the film Moms’
Night Out? Are there other people in your life you can turn to?
I have the best husband ever! John and I
adopted two children from the foster care system, and they came with a variety
of issues. On most evenings, he’d take over the kid duty as soon as he got home
from work because he knew I’d had a long day. Then on Saturdays he’d load up
the three little ones into his car for an “adventure.” I’d enjoy the peace and
write during this time. I also have two wonderful babysitters and some great
neighbors who I can reach out to for help. Yes, I am blessed! Having a support
system is SO important!
Q:
This movie and the novel are both very funny and lighthearted, but the
day-to-day tasks of being a mother can become overwhelming. What advice do you
have for the mom who is feeling completely overcome by her responsibilities?
Remember that God is there for you. You
don’t have to do it alone. One of my favorite Scripture verses is Isaiah 40:11,
“He tends his flock like a shepherd: He gathers the lambs in his arms and
carries them close to his heart; he gently leads those that have young.” God
wants to be there for you to guide you and assist you. Turn to Him. Even quick
prayers, blubbered by an exhausted mom, make a difference.
Q:
What advice would you give to dads about ways they can help alleviate some of
the pressures moms feel?
I’d say that when it comes to helping,
every little thing makes a difference. When my husband loads the dishwasher I’m
so grateful! Also remind them often of their importance. Moms need to hear this
most of all.
Q:
Where can our audience find out more about the movie and book editions of Moms’ Night Out?
For more information about
Tricia Goyer, visit her online home at www.triciagoyer.com, become a fan on Facebook (authortriciagoyer) or follow her on Twitter (@triciagoyer).
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